When I was searching for a bride I used to just look at the profiles that carried a photograph. Then one day I thought "lets have a look at the profiles that do not have a photograph" Then Shanti`s profile came up. I liked her frankness and her honesty that she had written. She like me is not a Rocket Scientist or a person with a string of letters after my name. To be honest I did not like the profiles that put Education and Qualification status above all else. We started writing and wrote for 6 months then I arrived in Malaysia on November 1st 2008 then had the civil wedding on the 5th but then the most important wedding was the Hindi wedding on the 10th. At the moment my wife has needed to go back home after a six month stay in our house to apply for her settlement visa which is now in progress. I am truly thankful to Shaadi and wish all prospective people who are still searching every success !! "I found my lifetime soulmate and so can you"